IT'S THE SIMPLE THINGS.
People often forget how simple life truly is, I mean why worry yourself? I have this belief that I got from Barbie...yeah weird I know. Anyway, she taught me that if something isn't going the way you want it, you could try to fix it, if it matters to you. if not really than walk away (I'm laughing now, its an odd thing to say) but its true, I never place myself in situations I don't like. I never talk (Be fake friends) with people I don't care
about. Why complicate your life? I'm rambling on a lot aren't I... This blog entry is about how you can & should have a big plan, an imagination, an expectation of the perfect life you want to live. But have a plan "B", have the ability to accept less, have the ability to appreciate. |
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I've always wanted the fanciest of things, "Lamborghini is the only car, I'm not buying anything else! The biggest mansion, you wont see me in a little thingy you call a house, and buzz-off with that cheap phone, I'm only using Sony xperia, till then I'll be phone less!". Those are all things I've actually said! But then my dad bought me a lenovo phone (probably the cheapest out there) and guess what? it did everything a sony could do, I quickly realized a phone does not defy me. Another time I got in my friends car, and drove it...only thing was it wasn't a Lamborghini, it was a simple Myvi, but again guess what? It had wheels and got me to where I wanted to be, and quite comfortably to tell the truth. And all those things weren't things I looked down upon, In fact, I want a Myvi now, its a simple very cute car! I guess what I'm trying to say is... don't fixate so much on your possessions, its all about you. And give the little things a try, you might just find your new dream.
(I found my new everything, its not an iphone, its Hello Kitty!) |
Balsam Pink, Over and Out.
My dream.
I don't know why I feel like sharing my dream with the world, I guess I'm bored and perhaps one day ill look back at this and think "oh silly balsam, its no longer a dream but reality" or this "hah, if you stopped blogging and actually studied maybe it could have been a reality". anyway, here I am and here you are, and here's my dream.
Am I the only one that has a complete vision of how I want it to be in the future, I mean down to what ill be wearing too. Right now I'm feeling, white high boots with white jeans white tank top and a black coat. I have this vision of a house, not too big because I like to see whats happening ,basically I'm a scaredy cat, anyway, Glass yeah i like my future house to have many Glass windows and one of the rooms to have a glass sealing, for star watching, some glass walls, but not completely a house made of glass, just partly. outside id love the place to have low grass all around the house with just a little bit of cement parking space for my biggest dream item to obtain, The one thing I simply cant stop thinking of, my fantasy, A lamborghini aventador roadster, there are hearts flying around me as I type this, I truly love everything about this amazing car, Everything. That's my dream, whats yours? Well I could ramble on for ages, Have a fantastic Day and Let your dreams go wild. Balsam Pink, Over and Out. |
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Natural hair, how i want it.
There I was, minding my own business (stalking my friends on Facebook) When out of the blue some guy I've never meet, lets call him Jack, sends me a message on Facebook, naturally I don't reply, and naturally they quit texting, but this guy decided to talk about my hair, he was trying to convince me to straighten it, yes that actually happened! Lets skip the details in this one, its quit annoying.
But it got me thinking, of how much i love my natural hair I don't know why but i got even more motivated to really take care of my natural hair and not straighten it ,not what he was hoping for, I dont know what it was and i dont know how to explian it but i find so much beauty in girls that wear their hair the way it is, if you have worn it openly before then you probably understand me when i say "confident" i felt powerful, and i know that sounds crazy but i get happy when i see someone else with natural hair as well, perhaps its because i live in an Asian country where i of course rarely see anyone that looks the slightest bit like me, so even when im watching a tv show and i see a colored female with her beautiful natural curly hair i feel like i should wear a crown and just sit there, it gets to my head. |
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Going from relaxed to natural.
Now I'm not one to talk about this, because I've never relaxed my hair and so I cant really understand where you're coming from, however i am going to talk about it anyway, Because YOLO, from a 3rd person's point of view. in one sentence how can i describe it, going from relaxed to natural? my sentence would be- A beautiful destination after a difficult journey.
I've watched YouTube and seen other people talking about transitioning to natural, apparently you need to cut all your hair (or so I think),from my point of view, i think its fine if you don't mind having short hair for a while and to tell you the truth short hair looks awesome on some people (I was thinking of cutting my hair short, tomboy style). my hair grows painfully slow but perhaps yours is faster? I sure hope that's the case. anyhow, I defiantly encourage you to go natural (their are many sites where transitioning women have an open community and talk about their hair journey) Hay do what you want, do you, as long as you're happy ,you are perfect.
I call my hair Poofy snail, because its poofy and it grows like a snail.
If you have the same problem as me, here are some tips on how to make/Help it grow faster.
Well that's all I've got, Have a wonderful Day and Let the hair journey begin.
Balsam Pink, Over and Out.
Now I'm not one to talk about this, because I've never relaxed my hair and so I cant really understand where you're coming from, however i am going to talk about it anyway, Because YOLO, from a 3rd person's point of view. in one sentence how can i describe it, going from relaxed to natural? my sentence would be- A beautiful destination after a difficult journey.
I've watched YouTube and seen other people talking about transitioning to natural, apparently you need to cut all your hair (or so I think),from my point of view, i think its fine if you don't mind having short hair for a while and to tell you the truth short hair looks awesome on some people (I was thinking of cutting my hair short, tomboy style). my hair grows painfully slow but perhaps yours is faster? I sure hope that's the case. anyhow, I defiantly encourage you to go natural (their are many sites where transitioning women have an open community and talk about their hair journey) Hay do what you want, do you, as long as you're happy ,you are perfect.
I call my hair Poofy snail, because its poofy and it grows like a snail.
If you have the same problem as me, here are some tips on how to make/Help it grow faster.
- spray water on your hair regularly - A gentle spray from a cute spray bottle is perfect.
- Apply olive oil or avocado oil.
- Protect your hair at night- use a satin pillowcase when you sleep.
- Use a wide tooth comb.
- Limit the amount of heat on hair.
- Deep condition.
- Don't over shampoo.
- Don't pull your hair.
- Avoid metal on hair.
- Eat healthy food (Protein) - eggs are a good example.
- Organic products.
- Braids- This is the one hairstyle that really works amazingly for me.
Well that's all I've got, Have a wonderful Day and Let the hair journey begin.
Balsam Pink, Over and Out.
THe day i stopped caring
This seems like a rather depressing first blog entry however that is not the case at all, but in fact it is (what i now realize) one of the few things I've done right in this life of mine.
"should i wear this,what will the others think of me","should i say this,what will the others recollect","is it okay to go there or do this, what will the others think" are all thoughts that used to run through my head constantly, from the very moment i wake up to the moment i fall asleep,I was living in my body someone else's life. It changed on the 17th of October 2014, my 17th birthday, the day i realized 17 years of my life have slipped through my fingers, the day i realized i haven't been living but simply alive. Are you living? are you doing what you want to do and being who you want to be? if so I applaud you. if not appease yourself, its not easy to be you, to be your true personality in a world where we are being judged by others at a persistent rate. I highly suggest that you try, at least for 1 week to be you, dress in the colors you like and voice your opinion like there is no tomorrow, you might get stairs, you might get dislikes perhaps from your dearest 'friends' but are you willing to let your life slip through your fingers while trying to impress others? will they do the same for you? to tell the truth, I've lost almost everyone I thought was a friend when i started being myself, not that myself was scary, but because i was no longer of any use, i wasn't a puppet, someone you could manipulate,I was me, confident and happy even tough I've lost all my so called friends along the way I have certainly gained new ones, real ones, after voicing my opinion and letting my true personalty out, i regularly look back at the day i stopped caring of what others might think of me, they day i started living. Since you are such an awesome person,I can see from the way you are hunched back scrolling down the text, now sit strait and read my tips on how to be yourself and stop caring. How to be yourself/stop caring about how others see you
Have a pinktastick life, I wish on the shiniest star in the sky for your success. Balsam Pink, over and out. |
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